Then someone said to the Prophet,
“Speak to us of Children.”
“Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
“You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
“You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.”
— Khalil Gibran The Prophet
Let parents bequeath to their children not riches, but the spirit of reverence. — Plato
Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.
Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.
Blessed is the one whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.
— Psalm 127:3-5
Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk. — Carl Jung
It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father. — Pope John XXIII
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother. — Fr. Ted Hesburgh
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