Desolation: One of The Seven Last Words of Christ – IV

[Since the 16th century preachers Christians have made reflecting on The Seven Last Words of Jesus a part of a lenten preparation to celebrate Easter.  The “words” are actually sentences: three from the Gospel of Luke; three from the Gospel of John, and one found both in Matthew and Mark gospels. A great many writers and preachers have included all seven in one homily or reflection.  Many have preached a series of seven homilies (one for each word).  A few have written a book on the subject.  The artwork is copyrighted by Irish painter John Dunne and can be found online here. The reflections are written and copywritten by Dr. Mark D. Roberts,  a pastor, author, retreat leader, speaker, and blogger.  You can find them here.]

“My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”       (Mark 15:34)


As Jesus was dying on the cross,
he echoed the beginning of Psalm 22, which reads:

My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?
Why are you so far away when I groan for help?
Every day I call to you, my God, but you do not answer.
Every night you hear my voice, but I find no relief. (vv. 1-2)

In the words of the psalmist
Jesus found a way to express the cry of his heart:
Why had God abandoned him?
Why did his Father turn his back on Jesus in his moment of greatest agony?

This side of heaven,
we will never fully know what Jesus was experiencing in this moment.
Was he asking this question because, in the mystery of his incarnational suffering,
he didn’t know why God had abandoned him?
Or was his cry not so much a question as an expression of profound agony?
Or was it both?

What we do know is that Jesus entered into the Hell of separation from God.
The Father abandoned him because Jesus took upon himself the penalty for our sins.
In that excruciating moment,
he experienced something far more horrible than physical pain.
The beloved Son of God knew what it was like to be rejected by the Father.
As we read in 2 Corinthians 5:21,
“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us,
so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (NIV).

I can write these words. I can say, truly,
that the Father abandoned the Son for our sake,
for the salvation of the world.
But can I really grasp the mystery and the majesty of this truth?
As Martin Luther once said,
“God forsaking God. Who can understand it?”
Yet even my miniscule grasp of this reality calls me
to confession, to humility, to worship, to adoration.

Questions for Reflection

Have you taken time to consider that Jesus was abandoned by the Father so that you might not be? What does this “word” from the cross mean to you?


O Lord Jesus,
though I will never fully grasp the wonder and horror
of your abandonment by the Father,
every time I read this “word,”
I am overwhelmed with gratitude.
How can I ever thank you for what you suffered for me?
What can I do but to offer myself to you in gratitude and praise?
Thank you, dear Lord, for what you suffered.
Thank you for taking my place.
Thank you for being forsaken by the Father so that I might never be.

When I survey the wondrous cross,
On which the Prince of glory died,
My richest gain I count but loss,
And pour contempt on all my pride.

Forbid it, Lord, that I should boast,
Save in the death of Christ my God;
All the vain things that charm me most,
I sacrifice them to his blood.

See, from his head, his hands, his feet,
Sorrow and love flow mingled down;
Did e’er such love and sorrow meet,
Or thorns compose so rich a crown.

Were the whole realm of nature mine,
That were a present far too small;
Love so amazing, so divine,
Demands my soul, my life, my all.

“When I Survey the Wondrous Cross” by Isaac Watts (1707)




About Paul Wharton

I am a cradle Catholic, a native West Virginian, and a priest since April 24, 1982. Spiritual Direction has made a tremendous difference in my life and I encourage people to try it out. My motto is "Progress not perfection." I am grateful that God has done for me what I could not do for myself.
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3 Responses to Desolation: One of The Seven Last Words of Christ – IV

  1. Denise says:

    It is a mystery, and a completely overwhelming thought that our Jesus suffered the horror of abandonment by the Father so that we would not have to. And not only the horror of abandonment, but the horror of torture, torment, agony, sorrow, betrayal, fear, and on and on. He understands the sufferings of His flock, because he emptied himself for our sake. His Love is amazing, and something we should attempt to emulate. I know that we can never reach that level, but we can come close with His help, and guidance. We are called to try with all our heart! God says, Be Still and Know that I am God. In the stillness, I am aware of God’s presence, his Majesty, Glory, and Love, though I know it is only a glimpse of what awaits us. God is healing my mind and body! I continue to be in awe of His providental care. Today, I am overwhelmed with emotion knowing that He loves me. Who am I? Does he ever tire of trying to reach the hidden, broken, places in my heart? I can feel, see, and witness what He provides for me each day in accomplishing His Will for my life. In my wretched human condition, I struggle with patience, resentment, anger, and fear. As I beat myself us, I hear His Loving, Comforting voice, feel His Loving Presence, as He gently covers me, holds me, and just loves me. He is teaching me to be still. He is teaching me to seek Heavenly Understanding, Love, and Patient Endurance, so that Faith and Patience may do its perfect work in me. I humbly submit time and again. Thank you Jesus for Your Love, Your Understanding, and Your Patient Endurance. Where would we be without You?

  2. Kathy says:

    Not only is this post thought provoking, it is heart provoking – in my heart I have felt abandoned, only to then recognize and feel the depth of God’s love for me. Thank you for providing continuing “food for thought” and “invitations into our hearts.” I am often encouraged by your blog to sit in quiet and feel the love of God.

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